Showing posts with label legacy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label legacy. Show all posts

Saturday, June 18, 2011

Father's Day Challenge

Father's Day is here and with a child of my own on the way, I find myself seeing things through the lens of a father. One such thing hit me when I was reading the Bible with my wife. We're currently reading our way through the Old Testament and we recently got to the book of Judges. To say what I need to say warrants a summary of the events leading up to Judges:

God heard the cry of His people in Egypt, asking for deliverance from the suffering they'd endured as slaves. In response, God called Moses and commanded him to lead the nation of Israel out of captivity into the land He had promised to Abraham. God then miraculously paved the way for Israel, leading them Himself with a pillar of smoke by day and fire by night, protecting and providing for them in the desert. God continually proved Himself to be faithful and caring and showed His power by multitudes of miracles. Despite this, the nation of Israel grumbled and complained, rebelled and sinned over and over again. Yet God remained patient with them and sustained them, committed to loving them... God gave them instruction on how to live and how to purify themselves and set them apart so that he could dwell among them despite their sin. Although it was not all without consequence, as He did not allow that generation to enter the promised land, but instead they wandered the desert for 40 years until they all died off.

With a new generation of Israel at hand, Moses retold all that God had done for their parents' generation and performed a second giving of the Law, detailing all that God had told them and dedicating them to the Lord. Shortly after, Moses died and God commissioned a new leader, Joshua, for the nation of Israel. It was up to Joshua to finally lead Israel into the promised land and take it for them to dwell in. God again proved Himself over and over again with miracles and victory. Joshua 21:42-45 says:
"Thus the Lord gave to Israel all the land that he swore to give to their fathers. And they took possession of it, and they settled there. And the Lord gave them rest on every side just as he had sworn to their fathers. Not one of their enemies had withstood them, for the Lord had given all their enemies into their hands. Not one word of all the good promises that the Lord had made to the house of Israel had failed; all came to pass."
Israel's response was appropriate: worship and praise. Joshua renewed the covenant between Israel and God and dedicated the people again to serving the Lord. The book (and life) of Joshua ends saying, "Israel served the Lord all the days of Joshua, and all the days of the elders who outlived Joshua and had known all the work that the Lord did for Israel" (24:31).

So now you're probably wondering, "What does any of this have to do with Father's Day?" Well, the story of Israel continues in Judges, and not long after the whole nation of Israel served the Lord comes what I would call the single most damning verse in the Bible for fathers...
"And there arose another generation after them who did not know the Lord or the work that he had done for Israel." (Judges 2:10)
How did this happen!? The rest of Judges and most of the books following could be described as the downward spiral of the nation of Israel. Rather than being known for serving the Lord, they will now be known for their apostasy and unfaithfulness. In the course of ONE generation, the entire nation fell away!

The responsibility for this failure lies not on the priests, not on a single leader, but on the fathers of the nation of Israel. In the great "Shema" from Deuteronomy 6, which every Israelite knew by heart as it was essentially the team motto, it says: "And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children..." This responsibility belongs to the father to teach their children about God and His word. But what we see in Judges is a failure of epic proportions.

As a [soon-to-be] father, I see this as a challenge. A challenge to teach my child, to dedicate her to serving the Lord, and to leading her spiritually. And not just my first baby girl, but all my future children as well. It's not good enough for one generation to serve the Lord... the other generations must follow suit. And it's the responsibility of the fathers to make sure that happens. We can't expect the youth pastor or the mother to do this for us. It's the fathers that need to step up and lead their families and read Scripture and pray, and maintain that conduit to God. If a father sits at home and watches football while his wife takes their kids to church and she is always the one investing in their spiritual growth, that father is not a Godly man. A Godly man will fight for his kids' spiritual health, because he knows that there is nothing the enemy would like more than to prevent a father from raising the next generation to serve the Lord.

I don't ever want anyone to say about me: "And there arose another generation after him who did not know the Lord or the work that he had done for them." That's not the legacy I want to leave as a father. I'd rather take the example left by Joshua... "But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord..."

So today I issue the same challenge Joshua did to the nation of Israel:

Choose this day whom you will serve...

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Micah Kaplan 2/3/85-12/12/10


A friend of ours passed away on Sunday.  Beloved husband, son, and teacher, Micah Benjamin Kaplan, 25, passed away in a car accident on the 101 on his way home from work.  He was a P.E. teacher at Highland Lakes School and Desert Sage Elementary School, and coached varsity soccer at Sandra Day O'Connor High.  Anyone knew him knew that his passions in life were his wife, people, and sharing the love of Jesus Christ.  Micah was married on May 24th, 2008 to his beautiful wife Susanna.  Together, they started a small group in their home called Agape, where Micah would invite everyone he knew, including his co-workers.  Micah's love for others and for God shone brightly, and he impacted anyone who came across his path.  Micah was very vocal about his love for God and his wife Susanna.  He was a very encouraging person, and loved everyone who came across his path.  He proposed to his wife Susie while she was battling cancer, and continued to love and support her throughout that journey. He was one of those people who put  a million exclamations after everything on facebook..... 

Micah Kaplan Just got home from work....So glad God is blessing me with the ability to work right now. I am so thankful for all of things that are happening. I love my family and my Lord!!!

Micah Kaplan Amazing night with family and my freaking AWESOME WIFE! Great day :)

My Amazing Wife is Graduating tonight! Way to go Susanna Kaplan!!! I love you so much! What an amazing accomplishment!! YOU ARE ONE HOT NURSE!!!!!!

Micah Kaplan There will never be another October 20th, 2010 ever again. Live it up today. Let His light shine!!!!! Today is gonna be AWESOME!!!!!!!

Micah Kaplan There is Victory in Him, which makes me the Victor and no longer the loser!!!!

Micah Kaplan My Amazing, beautiful wife Susie Marie Kaplan finished Nursing school tonight!!! There have been so many obstacles she has had to overcome while in school including Cancer. But by the Grace, Strength, and Joy of the Lord she did it! Not only did she pass school, SHE DOMINATED IT! Susie I am so proud of you. YOU AR...E TRULY AN OVERCOMER AND A CHAMPION IN EVERY WAY! CONGRATULATIONS NURSE SUSIE!!!!!!!

Micah Kaplan AGAPE is tonight!!!! Come and join us as we eat and fellowship together. There is no better place to be than in the midst of Him!!!!!! SO PUMPED!!!!

Micah Kaplan There is a great man who makes every man feel small. But the real great man is the man who makes every man feel great. -- G. K. Chesterton

All of this to say, this is a huge wake up call.  Micah and Susie are the same age as Scott and I.  We got married around the same time, live down the street from them, and would meet them up at the dog park for their golden retriever Buddy to play with Sam and Sadie.  I felt like it could have been Scott in that car accident, and I just don't know what I would do without my husband.  My heart aches for Susie and for all she has and is going through.

And with this, I want to make it a point to live life to the fullest.  If something were to happen to me, I would want people to say about me what people are saying about Micah.  I want to radiate the love of Jesus to anyone that comes across my path and always be positive despite my circumstances.  I want to reach out to others, and spend my days making every moment count.  I don't want to worry about petty things, and I want to suck every second out of every day making a difference in the lives of those around me.  

Thank you, Micah, for making a difference in this world.  Thank you for loving God and others the way that you did, and for being an amazing living testimony for Him.  You lived your life well, and you are admired, loved, and missed by many.

Micah and Susie were struggling financially as Susie still has financial bills from her battle with cancer, and now student loans as Micah was working two jobs to put her through nursing school.  If God lays it on your heart, please consider making a donation.

Information and donations and more on the life of Micah Kaplan is available at http://ilovemicahkaplan.blogspot.com/.